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That was alcoholic behavior: As she waited on the platform for the next subway to transfer home, she briefly thought about letting herself fall onto the tracks. Rachel Bernstein rry, MA, LMFTis a therapist who specializes in helping people who have left cults of all kinds to recover from the damage.

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It is not only the content of the program that they found problematic: Some have been raped, sexually abused or assaulted through their associations with AA or Narcotics Anonymous.

Richardson, who joined AA at 18 and had spent 36 years abstinent from alcohol in the program by the time she left, has led a crusade to spotlight how unregulated step groups can form a happy hunting ground for sexual predators.

Her work on the film involved researching the tragic murder of Karla Brada Mendez, a young woman who was introduced to AA by the rehab she attended for problematic prescription drug use. She met a man at those meetings who had been in AA for years often court-ordered. He never stopped drinking, but used the meetings as a way to meet vulnerable women.

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And for many, it does tremendous harm. But do all of these program- and community-related problems within step fellowships mean we can accurately describe them as cults? I asked Bernstein about the extent to which AA and the rest resemble the bona fide cults in which many of her patients have been involved. Part of her answer depicted an environment in which flirting in english autonomy —from group to group and from sponsor to sponsor—sees abuses go unchecked.

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Seeking help, Katherine reached out to Monica Richardson, who recommended Rachel Bernstein, the cult deprogramming therapist. Katherine worked with Bernstein for nine months to recover from her AA experience. Even more frightening, Alice said, is that she looked and even believed she was happy. Though she had no history of alcohol-related problems, her parents insisted she get an alcohol evaluation because she had been drinking at the time exotic erotic sex the assault.

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