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That was a few months ago. Since then he's been gently trying to regain my trust and rebuild our connection.
By lots in common I mean lots of similar interests, viewpoints, beliefs. Well suited for each other in every area except he wanted to keep looking. Now he seems to be changing his tune but he said before that he was sure and he wasn't. Why are you letting yourself be a fallback girl? That's what you are to. You're the person he does whatever st wants with because you don't set any boundaries, the girl who's there for him to use while he finds someone "better".
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